Radical Transformation Requires Radical Confrontation – Part 2
Categories: Bulletin Articles Tags: Confrontation, Transformation
Helpful confrontation is as natural as the confrontation between darkness and light. Do you find it uncomfortable to turn on the light switch? We do it every day so that we can see and not be hindered by darkness. Light confronts darkness (John 1:5). So, also, we should be comfortable in presenting the light of the gospel to others. Are we? Do we take the “up front” approach with the gospel? Sometimes, instead of talking frankly (but kindly) we “hint” at things. Instead of speaking candidly, we hem and haw. This is passive aggressive. We set ourselves up for the uncomfortableness by behaving this way, and we set the wrong expectations with whom we study.
How do we get over this? We must simply be direct and comfortable with others. Let them know that we are not speaking out of malice, but simply revealing what the scriptures teach. When discussing the gospel, speak openly and freely. Don’t act like the subject is uncomfortable for you. Other people can sense this, and that makes them uncomfortable. That awkwardness will always be there if we don’t take the necessary step into candidness. Don’t make the confrontation about us against them. That just makes things more uncomfortable. The issue is not between two people, but between God’s truth and the need for change in someone’s life. Without radical confrontation there cannot be radical transformation.
Who do you know that needs radical transformation today? Look around you. I am sure that you can spot one or two individuals who have such a need. Calmly, gently, quietly, humbly, meekly, patiently, and with a smile on your face, walk up to them and say, “Have you been radically transformed?” It could lead to great things.
God bless you, and I love you.
Kevin Cauley