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The Great Feeling That Forgiveness Brings

We all know the feeling. We’ve said or done something hurtful to someone we love dearly. The words come back echoing in our mind — we would do almost anything to be able to reach back and snatch them from the air — but we can’t. The image of the deed haunts our every waking moment. We see ourselves committing the act again and again every time we close our eyes and there’s nothing we can do that will erase the picture. Out of desperation, we go to the loved one we’ve offended and speak the words that are sometimes difficult to say: “I was wrong, I’m so sorry, please forgive me.”

And then you hear that precious reply: “I forgive you.” What joy that forgiveness brings us! What a tremendous burden lifted! To be forgiven means to be made whole and right again in the sight of the one we have offended. We no longer need fear their anger, their rejection. The relationship that had been broken is now restored. Two parties that had been separated by a wrong done are now reunited. Until we have been forgiven, we simply cannot rest — we have no peace.

Our loving God created within each of us, a deep-rooted desire to be forgiven when we do wrong. Without such a desire, we would not seek out God’s forgiveness, which He has made freely available in His Son (Colossians 1:12-14 – NKJV). Without this need to rectify our situation, we could not have a relationship with God, for we all have sinned (Romans 3:23). Nor could we have any form of relationship with one another, for we would routinely injure and shame each other with impunity.

This eager craving for redemption from wrong is what the Bible calls “conscience.” It was that portion of Adam and Eve’s character that awakened in the garden when “the eyes of both of them were opened, and they knew that they were naked” (Genesis 3:7 – NKJV). It was not their physical nakedness of which they were ashamed, but rather their nakedness in sin, being exposed in their transgression before the all-seeing eye of the Creator (Proverbs 15:3; cf. Hebrews 4:13). Their consciences were offended by their violation of God’s command (Genesis 2:17), and they sought to hide themselves behind aprons of leaves (Genesis 3:7).

The wail of a shattered conscience can be bitter indeed. For example, after having foolishly sold his birthright for a bowl of soup, Esau realized the shamefulness of what he had done for: “He found no place for repentance, though he sought it diligently with tears” (Hebrews 12:16-17 – NKJV). Esau’s conscience cried out to be restored to his position as the firstborn of his father. How miserable he must have been to come to recognize at last that the deed could not be undone!

We might also call to mind Judas Iscariot, who betrayed the Son of God into the hands of lawless men for thirty pieces of silver (Matthew 26:14-15). Upon seeing that Jesus had been condemned to death, Judas cast the wretched ransom at the feet of the chief priests, saying, “I have sinned by betraying innocent blood.” After this, he went out and hanged himself (Matthew 27:3-5 – NKJV). Judas could find no way to remedy his crime — no means for rejoining himself with the One with whom he had often shared bread.

And let us consider Simon Peter, who boldly scoffed at Jesus’ prophecy that he would deny his Master, yet did indeed deny Him three times even with cursing. After his denial, the rooster crowed and “the Lord turned and looked at Peter” (Luke 22:61 – NKJV), how Peter’s conscience must have groaned in anguish within him at the knowledge that he had indeed denied his Lord! How tormented his soul must have been when he wandered off by himself, weeping bitterly (Luke 22:62 – NKJV)!

But oh how sweet it was for Peter to know at last that his sin had been forgiven him! Doubtless these things were in his heart when he wrote by inspiration: “And above all things have fervent love for one another, for love will cover a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8 – NKJV). Once separated from his Lord and Savior, Peter found forgiveness — his conscience was at peace.

Peter once stated:

“There is also an antitype which now saves us — baptism (not the removal of the filth of the flesh, but the answer of a good conscience toward God), through the resurrection of Jesus Christ” (1 Peter 3:21 – NKJV).

Dear reader, if you are not a child of God (Gal. 3:26-28), surely you recognize that you stand condemned to death because of sin (Genesis 2:17; Romans 5:12; Romans 6:23). Won’t you consider accepting the Lord’s gracious forgiveness, humbly obeying Jesus’ command to believe and be baptized for the salvation of your soul? (Mark 16:16; Acts 2:38; Acts 22:16). If you will humbly obey the inspired command to be baptized (Acts 10:44-48), you too can experience the great feeling that only forgiveness brings (Acts 8:39).