Less is More!
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Proverbs 17:27 He who has knowledge spares his words, And a man of understanding is of a calm spirit.
I have been told I have the “Gift of Gab,” – the ability to have conversations with anybody at any time. I am not alone, there are many people in the world today that possess this same ability. Yet in my experience, and more importantly considering Scripture, it can become more of a curse than a gift. I heard someone say, “We may have the right to stay silent, but I don’t have the ability.” Sadly, sometimes we can speak faster than we think. This also reminds me of some advice I was given, “Say what you mean and mean what you say.” To do this, we are forced to consider what the immediate and lasting intent and effect of your speech includes and represents. If only all people would stop, truly T.H.I.N.K. before speaking, just THINK of how much pain and how many problems would be eliminated.
[T]-Is it True? [H]-Is it Helpful? [I]-Is it Inspiring? [N]-Is it Necessary? [K]-Is it Kind?
Another piece of practical wisdom when dealing with one’s speech is “Less is More.” This is what leads us to a closer meaning to the Proverb at hand. Throughout our lives we strive to learn and gain knowledge, undoubtedly with the intent to share it with others. The purpose is to inform, instruct, and to relate to others. In Proverbs 17:27 we see a similar mindset. Though we have knowledge or experience, we should wait upon being asked our opinion or an opportunity arises, before engaging the person with our insight. It is important we use the right tact. Does anyone really enjoy a “Know-it-all” or a “Topper?” A “Topper” is one who has done whatever you have, but more often seems to have done it bigger or better. We must avoid this. It can be achieved with patience and by becoming better listeners and choosing our words wisely.
Finally, we must also possess the proper attitude and demeanor when speaking to others. Notice the man of understanding is of a calm spirit. Just as we find in the book of James, the New Testament inspired book of practical wisdom. James 1:19 “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” It would do us all good to read the book of James once a month. And especially chapter three concerning the tongue. And again, If only all people would stop, truly be quick to listen and slow to speak and wrath, just THINK of how much pain and how many problems would be eliminated!
~Jeff Whatley