How To Change Enemies Into Friends
Categories: Church of Christ Bulletin Articles, uncategorized
In reading United States history, we read that there was an intense hatred between the North and South during the Civil War over slavery (and other issues). President Lincoln was often criticized for speaking of benevolent treatment for Southern rebel forces.
One such critic reminded him that there was a war going on, the Confederates were the enemy, and as such, they should be destroyed. The President thought a moment, then wisely responded, “I destroy my enemies when I make them my friends.”
Lincoln’s wise answer reflects Jesus’ similar teaching in the Sermon on the Mount:
“I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you, that you may be sons of your Father in heaven” (Matthew 5:44-45).
There’s no question that we will encounter difficult people in our lives, but to give in to the temptation to undermine or hurt them in any way is not God’s way (Romans 12:19). Instead, we should pray for them, show consideration, and look out for their best interests (Philippians 2:1-4; cf. 1 Corinthians 13:5). This may result in changing an enemy into a friend (cf. 1 Samuel 24:16-19).
Not everyone will respond in a positive way to us, but we can pray and ask God to give us a more harmonious relationship with folks.
There are difficult people in every walk of life — in the workplace, at home, and yes, even in the Lord’s church.
What difficult individual can we start turning into a friend today?